I feel lost, mislead, abandoned, and angry. I also feel a fool, frustrated and used up.
I had no plan when I sat down to write tonight, just have so much in my head needed to let some out. I ignored my instincts and didnt voice them in time because I was afraid of what he would think. Now he thinks just what I was afraid he would think.
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Ok well I started that 2 days ago and got distreacted by a kid and never finished. It is amazing how things an change. I can’t say things are perfect but better and looking brighter.
Right now I am waiting on a counselor from a state agency for my oldest son. She is 20 min late so far. I begged my hab provider to come in to help and now the counselor isnt even showing. My point was this could get distracted at any given moment..or it may not.
It feels good to know that telling the truth and not holding back can actually help. It was scary. But it worked out well, at least from my current perspective. There are still things to talk about and bumps to work out.
I feel better and more hopeful than I have in a very long time…
So it has been a little over a week since I left off, and I am back to being flummoxed. Faith in one you love is a very tricky thing. Not coddling the one you love is as well.
I want to not be reasonable and too just not care, but I can’t. How is it someone can be mad at you for being mad at them and you feel like the bad one, and they get off scott free and the issue is never resolved? How much is enough giving and how much is enough settling? When everyone you ask says he is wrong, then where do you go from there?
These are just some of the questions I am going over to no avail.
I found this quote some where and really liked it, I want to be more like this quote.
–Life isn ‘t about waiting for the storm to pass, it is about learning to dance in the rain.